Posted on:
October 8th, 2024
Last reviewed:
January 3rd, 2025
Should I have someone else there when I tell my grandchildren?
This is a very personal thing and a question that only you can answer. This is because much depends on: – the age of the children – the type of relationship you have with them – whether you feel confident answering any questions they might have Some people choose to speak to children one-to-one, whereas others prefer speaking to more than one grandchild at the same time. The most important thing is that you speak at a level they will understand using clear, simple language. Here are some other tips: *Stay calm. Choose a time and place where everyone is comfortable and relaxed *Explain what dementia is and what it means *Be patient and listen to them. Answer any questions they might have *Be honest. Acknowledge that things might seem a little different or strange but you love them very much, you’re still the same person and your love won’t change *Let them express whatever they need to. Accept their feelings, whatever they are in that moment. They might feel confused, sad, loss, stressed, irritated or they might be afraid or feel guilty in some way. All of these feelings are valid *Make plans for the future together – talk about how it’s possible to live well with dementia and chat about all the things you can do, rather than focusing on what you can’t If you have a grandchild who is very young reading a book together might help. You’ll find a list of children’s books that tell stories and explain dementia on the Alzheimer’s Society website here . You can read more about talking to younger family members about your diagnosis here .Other relevant FAQs you might like...
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