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How do I explain my diagnosis to my grandchildren?

Talking to grandchildren and younger people about your dementia diagnosis might feel like a huge hurdle, but honesty is important. Here are some tips to help: *Choose the right time and place *Use simple language Try words like: · "Grandma/Grandad has an illness called dementia. It makes it harder for me to remember things. And sometimes I forget." · "My brain isn't working as well as it used to. I might need help with things." *Be honest and reassuring *Tell the truth, but in a comforting way: · "It's okay to feel sad or confused. I'm still the same person, and I love you very much." · "There are medicines/doctors that help, and I have people to support me." *Encourage questions If you don’t know the answers, it’s okay to be honest. You can find out together later. *Share positive moments Talk about the things you can still do together. *Use stories and examples You might say: "Sometimes I might forget where I put things, like my keys. Just like that time when you forgot where you left your favourite toy." *Be patient Children might need time to process this information. Talking to children about your dementia diagnosis can help them understand what’s happening and will make them feel less worried and more secure. Tell them that despite the changes, your love for them remains the same. You can read more here and read how others have shared their news with young people here

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