Be positive
A person with dementia may have been used to doing things for themselves in the past, and may be finding it hard to accept they need support. They may feel frustrated and their confidence may be dented by their inability to manage things on their own. Be understanding of how they are feeling. Try to focus on what the person can do, rather than what they can’t. Offer encouragement and praise when they do something without being patronising. Don’t try to take over completely when they are trying to complete a task. Offer help and support when needed without being overbearing.
Help them to stay active and engaged
While some people enjoy their own company, many people with dementia can spend too much time alone which is not necessarily a good thing for their mental and emotional wellbeing. The person may respond well and be more alert if they can maintain hobbies or be around other people. Don’t let the person sit around all day unless they absolutely want to – if they are mobile or can get out, encourage and support them to do so.
Promote their independence
This isn’t always easy as the person with dementia will come to rely more on you for help and support as their condition deteriorates, but encourage them to do what they can for themselves.
Team up rather than taking over
Try to do things together rather than doing everything for the person. Even if it means that certain tasks take longer.